Ex-gay movement
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The ex-gay movement consists of people and organizations that encourage people to refrain from entering or pursuing same-sex relationships, to eliminate homosexual desires and to develop heterosexual desires, or to enter into a heterosexual relationship. Beginning with the founding of Love In Action and Exodus International in the mid-1970s, the movement saw rapid growth in the 1980s and 1990s before declining in the 2000s.<ref>Greg Johnson, Still Time to Care: What We Can Learn from the Church's Failed Attempt to Cure Homosexuality, Zondervan, 2021.</ref>
It relies on the involvement of individuals who formerly identified themselves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual but no longer do; these individuals may state either that they have eliminated their attraction to the same sex altogether or that they abstain from acting on such attraction.
After the collapse of Exodus International in 2013, a small number of ex-gay ministries continue as the Restored Hope Network. The movement's ongoing impact on conservative religious discourse can be seen in an aversion to use of the term gay to refer to sexual orientation and its substitute with the language of "same-sex attraction".<ref>Johnson, Still Time to Care</ref>
There have been various scandals related to this movement, including some self-claimed ex-gays<ref>Ex-Ex-Gay Pride, Newsweek</ref> having been found in same-sex relationships despite having denied this, as well as controversies over gay minors being forced to go to ex-gay camps against their will, and overt admissions by organizations related to the movement that conversion therapy does not work.
A large body of research and global scientific consensus indicates that being gay, lesbian, or bisexual is compatible with normal mental health and social adjustment. Because of this, major mental health professional organizations discourage and caution individuals against attempting to change their sexual orientation to heterosexual, and warn that attempting to do so can be harmful.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref><ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref>
CharacteristicsEdit
Various ex-gay organizations have working definitions of change. Prior to disbanding and renouncing the idea of a cure,<ref name=nytexodus>Template:Cite news</ref> Exodus International described change as, "attaining abstinence from homosexual behaviors, lessening of homosexual temptations, strengthening their sense of masculine or feminine identity, correcting distorted styles of relating with members of the same and opposite gender".<ref name=Change>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> People Can Change defines change as, "any degree of change toward greater peace, satisfaction and fulfillment, and less shame, depression and darkness", and emphasizes that for most people, heterosexuality is not the ultimate goal.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> When the term ex-gay was introduced to professional literature in 1980, E. Mansell Pattison defined it as describing a person who had "experienced a basic change in sexual orientation".<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref> Some ex-gays advocate entering (or remaining) in a heterosexual marriage as part of the process. Some in mixed-orientation marriages acknowledge that their sexual attractions remain primarily homosexual, but seek to make their marriages work anyway.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref>
Some people no longer identify as gay since they became Christians or with prayer, without going to conversion therapy.<ref name="christianpost.com">{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref><ref>Abbie E. Goldberg, The SAGE Encyclopedia of LGBTQ Studies, SAGE Publications, USA, 2016, p. 385</ref>
ObjectivesEdit
Template:One source section Aside from achieving a degree of change in sexual orientation, the ex-gay movement pursues several broad goals and these include:
- coordination with individuals and organizations, particularly opponents of gay and lesbian civil equality to influence public perception and public policy;
- offering gays and lesbians a procedure that is claimed to solve many of their problems by making them heterosexual;
- promotion of ex-gay movement leaders as legitimate representatives in gay cultural/political discourse;
- the destigmatization of therapeutic attempts to change sexual orientation to undermine the American Psychological Association's long-standing position that homosexuality is not a mental disorder.<ref>Template:Cite book</ref>
Motivation of participantsEdit
The American Psychological Association reported that some ex-gay groups may help counteract and buffer minority stress, marginalization, and isolation<ref name="therapeuticresponse">APA Task Force on Appropriate Therapeutic Responses to Sexual Orientation. (2009). "Report of the Task Force on Appropriate Therapeutic Responses to Sexual Orientation". Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.[1] Accessed August 2, 2011</ref> in ways similar to other support groups, such as offering social support, fellowship, role models, and new ways to view a problem through unique philosophies or ideologies.<ref name=Levine>Levine, M., Perkins, D. D., & Perkins, D. V. (2004). Principles of community psychology: Perspectives and applications (3rd ed.). New York: Oxford University Press.</ref> Additionally, the same researchers also found that people joined ex-gay groups due to: a lack of other sources of social support; a desire for active coping, including both cognitive and emotional coping; and access to methods of sexual orientation identity exploration and reconstruction.<ref name=therapeuticresponse /><ref>Template:Cite journal</ref><ref name=ponticelli>Template:Cite journal</ref><ref name=wolkomir>Template:Cite journal</ref> The same report found that some<ref name=ponticelli /><ref name=wolkomir/><ref name=erzen>Erzen, T. (2006). Straight to Jesus: Sexual and Christian conversions in the ex-gay movement. Los Angeles:University of California Press.</ref> have described the ex-gay groups as, "a refuge for those who were excluded both from conservative churches and from their families, because of their same-sex sexual attractions, and from gay organizations and social networks, because of their conservative religious beliefs".<ref name=therapeuticresponse /> According to the APA report, "Ex-gay groups appear to relieve the distress caused by conflicts between religious values and sexual orientation and help participants change their sexual orientation identity, but not their sexual orientation".<ref name=therapeuticresponse /> The APA goes on to report that some<ref name=ponticelli/> believed that by, "taking on 'ex-gay' cultural norms and language and finding a community that enabled and reinforced their primary religious beliefs, values, and concerns",<ref name=therapeuticresponse /> they could resolve identity conflicts by:
- Adopting a new discourse or worldview.
- Engaging in a biographical reconstruction.
- Embracing a new explanatory model.
- Forming strong interpersonal ties.<ref name=therapeuticresponse />
One of the APA's sources for the report<ref name=wolkomir/> found that, "ex-gay groups recast homosexuality as an ordinary sin, and thus salvation was still achievable".<ref name=therapeuticresponse /> Another one of their sources<ref name=erzen/> is summarized as having observed that, "such groups built hope, recovery, and relapse into an ex-gay identity, thus expecting same-sex sexual behaviors and conceiving them as opportunities for repentance and forgiveness".<ref name=therapeuticresponse /> The APA report warns, however, that "some [ex-gay] groups may reinforce prejudice and stigma by providing inaccurate or stereotyped information about homosexuality".<ref name=therapeuticresponse />
Ex-gay organizationsEdit
The first contemporary ex-gay ministry, Love in Action, was formed in 1973.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> Three years later, with other ex-gay organizations, it formed Exodus International, the largest ex-gay organization and the largest organization under the Exodus Global Alliance.<ref name=nytexodus/> In May 1983, during a conference in the Netherlands, a European chapter was founded.<ref>David J. Bos, 'Homo-af: De opkomst van "de ex-homoseksueel" in Nederland. In: David Bos & John Exalto (eds.), Genot en gebod: Huwelijk en seksualiteit in protestants Nederland na 1800. Utrecht: KokBoekencentrum 2019, pp. 128-155.</ref> In June 2013, the Exodus board decided to cease operations, with president Alan Chambers apologizing for the pain and hurt the group had caused and saying that he no longer believed sexual orientation could be changed.<ref name=nytexodus/> Chambers apologized for what he identified as regrettable techniques, and the narrow message of a cure and marriage rather than a relationship with Christ for all.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> Shortly after, Chambers and his wife started Speak.Love., an organisation for promoting conversations on sexual orientation for all. In September 2014, Speak.Love. was merged into Chambers' personal website.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> Exodus Global Alliance, however, no longer affiliated with Exodus International,<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> has continued operations.
Other ex-gay organizations cater to specific religious groups, such as Courage International for Catholics, North Star for the LDS Church, JONAH for Jews, Joel 2:25 International for Catholic and Protestant Christians and OneByOne for Presbyterians.
Some groups follow a specific technique, such as Homosexuals Anonymous,<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> modeled after the Alcoholics Anonymous twelve-step program. Other ex-gay organizations include Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays and Gays.
In the United States, the organization The Changed Movement<ref name="out">Template:Cite news</ref> hosts public "Freedom March" events where ex-gays discuss their changes.<ref name="christianpost.com"/><ref>Chandelis R. Duster, Pulse survivor and others gather to celebrate 'freedom' from being gay, NBC News, USA, 5 May 2018</ref>
PeopleEdit
People associated with the ex-gay movementEdit
- Joe Dallas is the program director of Genesis Counseling<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- Donnie McClurkin wrote about his experience with homosexuality in his book, Eternal Victim, Eternal Victor.<ref>Template:Cite book</ref> He describes himself as going through a process by which he became "saved and sanctified". McClurkin has been criticized for stating homosexuality is a curse.<ref name="WPost" /> He speaks openly about sexual issues since becoming the biological father of a child with a woman to whom he was not married.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- Joseph Nicolosi was an American clinical psychologist, founder and director of the Thomas Aquinas Psychological Clinic in Encino, California, and a founder and former president of the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH).<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- Jeffrey Satinover is an American psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, and physicist. He is a member of the Scientific Advisory Committee of NARTH.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- Charles Socarides was an American psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, physician, educator, and author. He helped found NARTH in 1992.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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People who no longer support the ex-gay movementEdit
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- John Paulk, then leader of Focus on the Family's Love Won Out conference and chairman of the board for Exodus International North America, was spotted visiting a Washington, D.C. gay bar in September 2000. He was photographed outside of the bar from behind by Wayne Besen,<ref name="paulk">Template:Cite news</ref> and later stepped down from the two organizations.<ref name="besen">Template:Cite book</ref> In 2013, he formally apologized for his involvement in promoting the ex-gay concept and for the harm his work had done.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- Peterson Toscano, because he adhered to Conservative Christian beliefs, spent seventeen years as part of the ex-gay movement attempting to alter his sexual orientation through conversion therapy and faith-based ex-gay programs. In addition to receiving pastoral counseling, conversion therapy,<ref>John Dicker: Two paths diverged: A long and winding road to God Template:Webarchive, Colorado Springs Independent, January 29, 2004</ref> and discipleship training, he attended several ex-gay programs, including Life Ministries in New York City (1983–1991)<ref>Michael Luo. "Some Tormented by Homosexuality Look to a controversial Therapy", The New York Times, February 12, 2007.</ref> and the residential ex-gay program Love in Action in Memphis, Tennessee (July 1996-October 1998).<ref name="Dos Equis">Christine Dinsmore: When a Dos Equis Is More Than a Beer, Out, July/August 2006, Stand: July 10, 2006, bei christinedinsmore.com</ref> In April 2007, Toscano and Christine Bakke co-founded Beyond Ex-Gay, an organization that supports people who feel they have been wounded by such organizations.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- Anthony Venn-Brown is a former Australian evangelist in the Assemblies of God and an author whose book describes his experience in Australia's first ex-gay program.<ref name=book>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- John Smid was the leader of Love In Action in Memphis. He resigned that position in 2008,<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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- Warren Throckmorton is a past president of the American Mental Health Counselors Association. He wrote and produced the documentary I Do Exist about ex-gay people,<ref name="idoexist">{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation
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ControversyEdit
Sexual orientation change effortsEdit
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Prior to disbanding, Exodus International recommended to their members that they undertake sexual orientation change efforts, such as conversion therapy.<ref>Exodus International Policy Statements Template:Webarchive, Exodus International. Retrieved July 4, 2007.</ref> Exodus warned against going to counselors who tell a patient that they "can definitely eliminate all attractions to your same gender, or that you can definitely acquire heteroerotic attractions".<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> Evergreen International did not advocate any particular form of therapy,<ref>Template:Citation</ref> and warned that "therapy will likely not be a cure in the sense of erasing all homosexual feelings".<ref>Template:Citation</ref>
Sexual orientation change efforts are controversial and the American Psychological Association reported that, "the available evidence, from both early and recent studies, suggests that although sexual orientation is unlikely to change, some individuals modified their sexual orientation identity (i.e., individual or group membership and affiliation, self-labeling) and other aspects of sexuality (i.e. values and behavior)".<ref name="therapeuticresponse"/> Virtually all major mental health organizations have adopted policy statements cautioning the profession and the public against treatments that purport to change sexual orientation.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref><ref name=royal2009>Royal College of Psychiatrists: Royal College of Psychiatrists' Position Statement on Sexual Orientation Template:Webarchive</ref><ref name="DOMA2011">Letter from the Attorney General of the United States to the Speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives, RE: DOMA, February 23, 2011" Second, while sexual orientation carries no visible badge, a growing scientific consensus accepts that sexual orientation is a characteristic that is immutable"</ref>
In 2012, the Pan American Health Organization (the North and South American branch of the World Health Organization) released a statement cautioning against services that purport to "cure" people with non-heterosexual orientations as they lack medical justification and represent a serious threat to the health and well-being of affected people, and noted that the global scientific and professional consensus is that homosexuality is a normal and natural variation of human sexuality and cannot be regarded as a pathological condition. The Pan American Health Organization further called on governments, academic institutions, professional associations and the media to expose these practices and to promote respect for diversity. The World Health Organization affiliate further noted that gay minors have sometimes been forced to attend these "therapies" involuntarily, being deprived of their liberty and sometimes kept in isolation for several months, and that these findings were reported by several United Nations bodies. Additionally, the Pan American Health Organization recommended that such malpractices be denounced and subject to sanctions and penalties under national legislation, as they constitute a violation of the ethical principles of health care and violate human rights that are protected by international and regional agreements.<ref name="PAHO">{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }} archived here .</ref>
In March 2018, the European parliament voted by 435 to 109 members of parliament to stop conversion therapies in memberstates of the European Union.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref><ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref><ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref>
Controversy over teenagersEdit
A controversial aspect of the ex-gay movement has been the focus of some ex-gay organizations on gay teenagers, including occasions where teenagers have been forced to attend ex-gay camps by their parents. A 2006 report by the National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce outlined evidence that ex-gay and conversion therapy groups were at the time increasingly focusing on children.<ref name="taskforce">{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> Several legal researchers<ref>Hicks, A (1999) Reparative Therapy: Whether Parental Attempts to Change a Child's Sexual Orientation Can Legally Constitute Child Abuse; Retrieved January 29, 2011</ref> have responded to these events by arguing that parents who force their children into aggressive conversion therapy programs are committing child abuse under various state statutes.<ref>Talbot, T. Reparative therapy for homosexual teens: the choice of the teen should be the only choice discussed, 27 J. Juv. L. 33. 2006.</ref><ref>Cohan, J. Parental Duties and the Right of Homosexual Minors to Refuse "Reparative" Therapy, 11 Buff. Women's L.J. 67, 2002.</ref>
One case of emancipation involved Lyn Duff. Duff was admitted to Rivendell Psychiatric Center in West Jordan, Utah on December 19, 1991, at age 15, after being involuntarily transported there at her mother's behest.<ref name="10p">Template:Cite news</ref><ref>PRESS CLIPSVillage Voice (New York, NY), October 6, 1998, 1595 words, by Andy Hsiao</ref> Duff was subjected to a regimen of conversion therapy, including aversion therapy,<ref name="HolmlundWyatt2005">Template:Cite book</ref> hypnosis, psychotropic drugs, solitary confinement, therapeutic messages linking lesbian sex with "the pits of hell",<ref>"Gender identity problems; Gays angered about doctors forcing issue" The Houston Chronicle, August 2, 1995, Wednesday, 2 STAR Edition, HOUSTON; Pg. 3, 1310 words, CAROLE RAFFERTY; Knight-Ridder Tribune News</ref> behavior modification techniques, unreasonable forms of punishment for small infractions, and "positive peer pressure" group sessions in which patients demeaned and belittled each other for both real and perceived inadequacies.<ref name="10p"/><ref name="advocate">Template:Cite news</ref><ref name="lambda">Template:Cite news</ref><ref>Template:Cite journal</ref><ref>CHURCHER, Sharon (1998) "GOING STRAIGHT". Sunday Mail (Queensland, Australia), September 6, 1998, Sunday, NEWS; Pg. 40, 1274 words</ref> On May 19, 1992, after 168 days of incarceration, Duff escaped from Rivendell and traveled to San Francisco, where she lived on the streets and in safe houses.<ref>Ladie Terry. (1994) 'ORPHANS' SPEAK OUT. San Jose Mercury News (California) Tuesday MORNING FINAL EDITION. December 13, 1994. EDITORIAL; p. 7B</ref> In 1992, Duff initiated legal action against the facility and her mother.<ref>Family Law, Public Policy and New Federalism by Steven K. Wisensale. Retrieved July 10, 2007.</ref>
The ex-gay organization Love in Action was involved in a controversy surrounding a teenager. In July 2005, The New York Times ran a feature story about 16-year-old Zachary Stark, whose parents forced him to attend an ex-gay camp run by the group.<ref>Template:Cite news</ref> In July 2005, Stark was released from the camp. An investigation of the camp by the Tennessee Department of Children's Services did not uncover signs of child abuse.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> In September 2005, Tennessee authorities discovered that unlicensed staff had been administering prescription drugs. A settlement was reached shortly thereafter. LIA closed the camp in 2007.
See alsoEdit
- American Family Association v. City and County of San Francisco
- Detransition
- Ego-dystonic sexual orientation
- Environment and sexual orientation
- Ex-ex-gay
- National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality
- Restored Hope Network
- Sexaholics Anonymous
- Side A, Side B, Side X, Side Y (theological views)
ReferencesEdit
External linksEdit
- Ex-GayTruth.com, presents issues related to the ex-gay movement from a conservative Christian perspective
- Cure for Love, a National Film Board of Canada documentary