Sexual frustration

Template:Short description Template:Multiple image Sexual frustration is a sense of dissatisfaction stemming from a discrepancy between a person's desired and achieved sexual activity. It may result from physical, legal, mental, emotional, social, financial, religious or spiritual barriers. It can derive from displeasure during sex due to issues such as anorgasmia, anaphrodisia, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref> or erectile dysfunction.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref><ref name=":0">{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> A sense of incompatibility or discrepancy in libido between partners may be involved.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref> It may also relate to broader existential frustration.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>

Sexual frustration can potentially have a number of consequences, and like other frustrations, can increase the risks of aggression, violence, or crime.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref> Some mass shooters, incels, and other criminals have cited sexual frustration as one reason for their anger.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>

Historical methods of dealing with sexual frustration have included fasting and the taking of libido suppressants such as anaphrodisiacs (food supplements)<ref>Al-Durai, F. Z. Sexual behaviour and attitudes of Kuwaiti females and males and their personality correlations. Diss. University of York, 1987.</ref> or antaphrodisiacs (medicinal supplements).<ref>Larson, Jennifer. "Sexuality in Greek and Roman religion." A Companion to Greek and Roman Sexualities (2013): 214-229.</ref> It can also affect the sexually active, especially hypersexual people.<ref>Stewart, Hannah, and J. Paul Fedoroff. "Assessment and treatment of sexual people with complaints of hypersexuality." Current Sexual Health Reports 6.2 (2014): 136-144.</ref> It is a natural stage of the development throughout youth, when going through puberty as a teenager.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>

Ways to cope with sexual frustration include engaging in solo sex, meditating, exercising, exploring new techniques, discussing and being open with one's partner about sexual frustrations, or seeking professional assistance through a sex therapist.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref>

Adolescents

Adolescents may experience sexual frustration due to a variety of factors, including societal expectations, hormonal changes, and the complexities of navigating relationships. For some adolescents, sexting serves as an outlet for sexual exploration within a virtual space, particularly for those not yet ready for physical sexual activity.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>

Menopause

During menopause, individuals may experience reduced sexual desire and activity. However, engaging in sex remains important for many older people. Couples in their 50s or older expect ongoing sexual involvement, with an emphasis on traditional intercourse over other forms. Common sexual dysfunctions, like ejaculatory issues in males and genital atrophy in females, pose challenges. Lack of awareness about these changes may hinder communication with partners, potentially leading to sexual frustration and abstinence.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>

Other groups

Autism

People with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) may face sexual frustration far more than most other people due to challenges in social interaction, communication difficulties, and sensory sensitivities associated with ASD. These individuals often struggle to interpret social cues and establish meaningful relationships, leading to a sense of isolation. Sensory sensitivities can also contribute to discomfort in intimate situations. Additionally, the lack of tailored resources and support for sexuality education exacerbates their frustration.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>

Sexual frustration's impact on aggression and crime

• Sexual frustration has been identified as a factor contributing to immoral conducts throughout history.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref><ref>Template:Cite journal</ref><ref>Template:Cite journal</ref> However, it is not prominently addressed in major criminological theories.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation

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• Sexual frustration extends beyond individuals facing involuntary celibacy; it also affects those engaged in sexual activity. The frustration arising from unmet sexual desires, unavailability of partners, and unsatisfactory sexual experiences appears to heighten the risks of aggression, violence, and criminal tendencies associated with the pursuit of relief, power, revenge, and displaced frustration. While sexual frustration alone is not adequate to fully explain aggression, violence, or crime, recognizing its impact on behavior remains crucial.<ref name=":1" />

See also

• Edging (sexual practice)
• Erotic sexual denial
• Orgastic potency
• Sexual abstinence
• Sexual tension
• Incel