Editing Cosima Wagner (section)

== Family background and early childhood ==
[[File:Youthful Franz Liszt.jpg|thumb|upright|Franz Liszt, depicted at the time of his affair with Marie d'Agoult]]
In January 1833 the 21-year-old Hungarian composer and pianist [[Franz Liszt]] met [[Marie d'Agoult]], a Parisian socialite six years his senior.{{sfn|Watson|pp=30–31}} Marie had been married since 1827 to Charles, Comte d'Agoult, and had borne him two daughters, but the union had become sterile. Drawn together by their mutual intellectual interests, Marie and Liszt embarked on a passionate relationship. In March 1835 the couple fled Paris for Switzerland; ignoring the scandal they left in their wake, they settled in [[Geneva]] where, on 18 December, Marie gave birth to a daughter, Blandine-Rachel.{{sfn|Watson|pp=32–37}}{{refn|group=n|Marie falsified the child's birth certificate, recording the mother as "Cathérine-Adelaide Meran", aged 24. A similar deception was employed two years later, when Cosima's mother was entered as "Caterina de Flavigny"; these steps were thought necessary to conceal Marie's adultery or perhaps, according to Liszt's biographer [[Derek Watson (actor and musicologist)|Derek Watson]], to deny Charles d'Agoult any claim to the children.{{sfn|Watson|p=38}}<ref name=H4 />}}

In the following two years Liszt and Marie travelled widely in pursuit of his career as a concert pianist. Late in 1837, when Marie was heavily pregnant with their second child, the couple were at [[Como]] in Italy. Here, on 24 December in a lakeside hotel in [[Bellagio, Lombardy|Bellagio]], a second daughter was born. They named her Francesca Gaetana Cosima, the unusual third name being derived from [[Saints Cosmas and Damian|St Cosmas]], a patron saint of physicians and apothecaries;{{sfn|Hilmes|p=2}} it was as "Cosima" that the child became known. With her sister she was left in the care of [[wet nurse]]s (a common practice at the time), while Liszt and Marie continued to travel in Europe. Their third child and only son, Daniel, was born on 9 May 1839 in Venice.<ref name=H4>{{harvnb|Hilmes|pp=4–7}}</ref>

In 1839, while Liszt continued his travels, Marie took the social risk of returning to Paris with her daughters. Her hopes of recovering her status in the city were dented when her influential mother, Madame de Flavigny, refused to acknowledge the children; Marie would not be accepted socially while her daughters were clearly in evidence. Liszt's solution was to remove the girls from Marie and place them with his mother, Anna Liszt, in her Paris home while Daniel remained with nurses in Venice. By this means, both Marie and Liszt could continue their independent lives.<ref name=H4 /> Relations between the couple cooled, and by 1841 they were seeing little of each other; it is likely that both engaged in other affairs.{{sfn|Watson|p=69}} By 1845 the breach between them was such that they were communicating only through third parties.{{sfn|Watson|p=70}} Liszt forbade contact between mother and daughters; Marie accused him of attempting to steal "the fruits of a mother's womb", while Liszt insisted on his sole right to decide the children's future. Marie threatened to fight him "like a lioness", but soon gave up the struggle. Though they were living in the same city, she did not see either of her daughters for five years, until 1850.<ref name=H11>{{harvnb|Hilmes|pp=11–14}}</ref>