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==Components== The original components of limerence, from ''Love and Limerence'', were:<ref>{{harvnb|Tennov|1999|pp=23–24}}</ref> <blockquote> * intrusive thinking about the object of your passionate desire (the limerent object or "LO"), who is a possible sexual partner * acute longing for reciprocation * dependency of mood on LO's actions or, more accurately, your interpretation of LO's actions with respect to the probability of reciprocation * inability to react ''limerently'' to more than one person at a time (exceptions occur only when limerence is at low ebb—early on or in the last fading) * some fleeting and transient relief from unrequited limerent passion through vivid imagination of action by LO that means reciprocation * fear of rejection and sometimes incapacitating but always unsettling shyness in LO's presence, especially in the beginning and whenever uncertainty strikes * intensification through adversity (at least, up to a point) * acute sensitivity to any act or thought or condition that can be interpreted favorably, and an extraordinary ability to devise or invent "reasonable" explanations for why the neutrality that the disinterested observer might see is in fact a sign of hidden passion in the LO * an aching of the "heart" (a region in the center front of the chest) when uncertainty is strong * buoyancy (a feeling of walking on air) when reciprocation seems evident * a general intensity of feeling that leaves other concerns in the background * a remarkable ability to emphasize what is truly admirable in LO and to avoid dwelling on the negative, even to respond with a compassion for the negative and render it, emotionally if not perceptually, into another positive attribute.</blockquote>
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