Editing Learned Hand (section)

==Marriage and New York==
After reaching the age of 30 without developing a serious interest in a woman, Hand thought he was destined for bachelorhood. But, during a 1901 summer holiday in the [[Québec]] resort of [[La Malbaie, Quebec|La Malbaie]], he met 25-year-old Frances Fincke, a graduate of [[Bryn Mawr College]].<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|p=72}}</ref> Though indecisive in most matters, he waited only a few weeks before proposing. The more cautious Fincke postponed her answer for almost a year, while Hand wrote to and occasionally saw her. He also began to look more seriously for work in New York City.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|p=78}}</ref> The next summer, both Hand and Fincke returned to La Malbaie, and at the end of August 1902, they became engaged and kissed for the first time.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|p=79}}</ref> They married on December 6, 1902, shortly after Hand had accepted a post with the [[Manhattan]] law firm of Zabriskie, Burrill & Murray.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=80–81}}</ref> The couple had three daughters: Mary Deshon (born 1905), Frances (born 1907), and Constance (born 1909). Hand proved an anxious husband and father. He corresponded regularly with his doctor brother-in-law about initial difficulties in conceiving and about his children's illnesses. He survived [[pneumonia]] in February 1905, taking months to recover.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=172–174}}</ref>

[[Image:View of Woolworth Building fixed crop.jpg|thumb|right|In 1914, Hand moved his offices across [[Broadway (Manhattan)|Broadway]] from the dilapidated Post-Office–Court Building (left) into the recently completed [[Woolworth Building]] (center), then the tallest in the world.]]

The family at first spent summers in [[Mount Kisco]], with Hand [[commuting]] on the weekends. After 1910, they rented summer homes in [[Cornish, New Hampshire]], a [[Cornish Art Colony|writers' and artists' colony]] with a stimulating social scene. The Hands bought a house there in 1919, which they called "Low Court".<ref>{{Harvnb|Griffith|1973|p= 7}}</ref> As Cornish was a nine-hour train journey from New York, the couple were separated for long periods. Hand could join the family only for vacations.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=171–73}}</ref> The Hands became friends of the popular artist [[Maxfield Parrish]], who lived in nearby [[Plainfield, New Hampshire|Plainfield]]. The Misses Hand posed for some of his paintings.<ref>Gilbert, Alma, ''Maxfield Parrish: The Masterworks'', Third Edition (Berkeley, California: Ten Speed Press, 2001) p. 110.</ref>

The Hands also became close friends of Cornish resident Louis Dow, a [[Dartmouth College]] professor. Frances Hand spent increasing amounts of time with Dow while her husband was in New York, and tension crept into the marriage. Despite speculation, there is no evidence that she and Dow were lovers. Hand regretted Frances' long absences and urged her to spend more time with him, but he maintained an enduring friendship with Dow.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=183–187}}</ref> He blamed himself for a lack of insight into his wife's needs in the early years of the marriage, confessing his "blindness and insensibility to what you wanted and to your right to your own ways when they differed from mine".<ref name="Gunther 1994 187–188">{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=187–188}}</ref> Fearing he might otherwise lose her altogether, Hand came to accept Frances' desire to spend time in the country with another man.<ref name="Gunther 1994 187–188" />

While staying in Cornish in 1908, Hand began a close friendship with the political commentator and philosopher [[Herbert Croly]].<ref>{{Harvnb|Stettner|1993|p=25}}</ref> At the time, Croly was writing his influential book ''[[The Promise of American Life]]'', in which he advocated a program of democratic and [[egalitarian]] reform under a national government with increased powers.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=190–193}}</ref> When the book was published in November 1909, Hand sent copies to friends and acquaintances, including former president Theodore Roosevelt.<ref>{{Harvnb|Stettner|1993|p=76}}</ref> Croly's ideas had a powerful effect on Roosevelt's politics, influencing his advocacy of [[New Nationalism (Theodore Roosevelt)|New Nationalism]] and the development of [[Progressivism]].<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=195, 198–202}}</ref>

Hand continued to be disappointed in his progress at work. A move to the firm of Gould & Wilkie in January 1904 brought neither the challenges nor the financial rewards for which he had hoped.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=101–105}}</ref> "I was never any good as a lawyer," he later admitted. "I didn't have any success, any at all."<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|p=107}}</ref> In 1907, deciding that at the age of 35 success as a Wall Street lawyer was out of reach, he lobbied for a potential new federal judgeship in the [[United States District Court for the Southern District of New York]], the federal court headquartered in Manhattan. He became involved briefly in local Republican politics to strengthen his political base. In the event, Congress did not create the new judgeship in 1907; but, when the post was finally created in 1909, Hand renewed his candidacy. With the help of the influential [[Charles Culp Burlingham|Charles C. Burlingham]], a senior New York lawyer and close friend, he gained the backing of [[United States Attorney General|Attorney General]] [[George W. Wickersham]], who urged President [[William Howard Taft]] to appoint Hand. One of the youngest federal judges ever appointed, Hand took his judicial oath at age 37 in April 1909.<ref>{{Harvnb|Gunther|1994|pp=123–124, 128–133}}; {{Harvnb|Schick|1970|p=14}}; {{Harvnb|Griffith|1973|p=5}}</ref>