Editing Sexual identity (section)

===General===
Most of the research on sexual orientation identity development focuses on the development of people who are attracted to the same sex. Many people who feel attracted to members of their own sex [[coming out|come out]] at some point in their lives. ''Coming out'' is described in three phases. The first phase is the phase of "knowing oneself," and the realization emerges that one is sexually and emotionally attracted to members of one's own sex. This is often described as an internal coming out and can occur in childhood or at puberty, but sometimes as late as age 40 or older. The second phase involves a decision to come out to others, e.g. family, friends, and/or colleagues, while the third phase involves living openly as an [[LGBT]] person.<ref name="hrccontinuum">{{cite news |periodical=[[Human Rights Campaign]]|title=The Coming Out Continuum |url=http://dev.hrc.org/issues/3333.htm |access-date=2007-05-04 |url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20071102101657/http://dev.hrc.org/issues/3333.htm|archive-date=2007-11-02}}</ref> In the United States today, people often come out during high school or college age. At this age, they may not trust or ask for help from others, especially when their orientation is not accepted in society. Sometimes they do not inform their own families.<ref>{{Cite web |last=Meyer |first=Ilan H. |title=Coming Out Milestones in the US |url=https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/coming-out-milestones-in-us/ |access-date=2022-12-05 |website=Williams Institute |language=en}}</ref> Various studies have shown that gender identity can be affected by family conditions, educational environment, society and media. In other words, in conservative societies, people face different challenges to express their gender identity if they have a gender identity different from the norm of the society.<ref>{{Cite book |last=Ahmady |first=Kameel |display-authors=etal |date=2020 |title=[[Forbidden Tale]] (A comprehensive study on lesbian, gay, bisexuals (LGB) in Iran) |publisher=AP Lambert Academic Publishing |location=Germany |author-link=Kameel Ahmady}}</ref><ref>{{Cite news |last=Meckler |first=Laura |date=2022-06-03 |title=Gender identity lessons: What schools are teaching students |newspaper=Washington Post |language=en |url=https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2022/06/03/schools-gender-identity-transgender-lessons/ |url-access=subscription |url-status=live|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230129064019/https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2022/06/03/schools-gender-identity-transgender-lessons/|archive-date=Jan 29, 2023}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|title=Students Exploring Gender Identity|date=October 2021 |url=https://www.apa.org/ed/schools/primer/gender-identity |access-date=2024-02-09|publisher=American Psychological Association}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|title=Effects of the Family of Origin on Sexual Iden/ty Development |url=https://www.richmont.edu/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Effects-of-Family-of-Origin-on-Sexual-Identity-Development-Presentation-Bethany-Elmore.pdf}}</ref>

According to Rosario, Schrimshaw, Hunter, Braun (2006), "the development of a lesbian, gay, or bisexual (LGB) sexual identity is a complex and often difficult process. Unlike members of other minority groups (e.g., ethnic and racial minorities), most LGB individuals are not raised in a community of similar others from whom they learn about their identity and who reinforce and support that identity" and "[r]ather, LGB individuals are often raised in communities that are either ignorant of or openly hostile toward homosexuality."<ref name="Rosario et al."/>

Some individuals with [[ego-dystonic sexual orientation|unwanted sexual attractions]] may choose to actively dis-identify with a sexual minority identity, which creates a different sexual orientation identity from their actual sexual orientation. Sexual orientation identity, but not sexual orientation, can change through [[psychotherapy]], [[support group]]s, and life events.<ref name=apa2009/> A person who has homosexual feelings can self-identify in various ways. An individual may come to accept an LGB identity, to develop a [[Heterosexuality|heterosexual]] identity, to reject an LGB identity while choosing to identify as [[ex-gay]], or to refrain from specifying a sexual identity.<ref name=apa60>{{cite report|title=Appropriate Therapeutic Responses to Sexual Orientation |publisher=[[American Psychological Association]] |pages=60–61 |date=August 2009 |url=http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbc/publications/therapeutic-response.pdf |access-date=February 3, 2015 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20130603121635/http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbc/publications/therapeutic-response.pdf |archive-date=June 3, 2013 |url-status=live}}</ref>