Editing Amy Heckerling (section)

==Personal life==
Heckerling dated friend and fellow film director [[Martin Brest]] briefly when she first moved to Los Angeles. Though they later broke up, they remained good friends. Heckerling's first marriage was to David Brandt, from 1981 to 1983. In 1984, Heckerling married director [[Neal Israel]], but they divorced in 1990.<ref name=People>{{cite news |last=McMurran |first=Kristin |url=https://people.com/archive/mixing-marriage-and-movies-is-a-mirthly-delight-for-directors-amy-heckerling-and-neal-israel-vol-23-no-19/ |title=Mixing Marriage and Movies Is a Mirthly Delight for Directors Amy Heckerling and Neal Israel |work=[[People (magazine)|People]] |date=1985-05-13 |access-date=2019-05-28 }}</ref><ref name=Tribune/>

The couple's daughter, Mollie Israel, was born in 1985. Mollie was led to believe Israel was her biological father until 2004,<ref>{{cite web | last=Ramis | first=Violet | title=The Story of Harold Ramis and Amy Heckerling's Secret Daughter | date=June 5, 2018 | url=https://www.vulture.com/2018/06/the-story-of-harold-ramis-and-amy-heckerlings-daughter.html | website=Vulture | access-date=5 June 2018}}</ref> when it was revealed to her that in fact [[Harold Ramis]] was her biological father.<ref name=Tribune>{{cite news | url=https://www.chicagotribune.com/entertainment/chicagoinc/ct-ent-harold-ramis-daughter-mollie-heckerling-20180418-story.html | archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180418173356/https://www.chicagotribune.com/entertainment/chicagoinc/ct-ent-harold-ramis-daughter-mollie-heckerling-20180418-story.html |archive-date=2018-04-18 |title=Mollie Heckerling revealed as Harold Ramis' daughter in new book | first=Tracy | last=Swartz | date=April 18, 2018 | work=Chicago Tribune | access-date=October 13, 2018}}</ref> Heckerling has included Mollie in some of her films in bit parts, including ''Look Who's Talking'' and ''Loser'', though Heckerling claims that her daughter never wanted to be a "girly girl" and distanced herself from much of her work, never adding any input to the lives of characters such as those in ''Clueless''. Despite this, the two get along very well and Mollie frequently introduces her mother to new music, such as [[OK Go]], and films.<ref name="avclub1">{{cite web | last=Murray | first=Noel | url=https://www.avclub.com/amy-heckerling-1798213551 | title=Amy Heckerling | publisher=The A.V. Club | date=March 20, 2008 | access-date=November 21, 2012}}</ref>

Actor and comedian [[Chris Kattan]] claimed in his 2019 memoir ''Baby, Don't Hurt Me: Stories and Scars from Saturday Night Live'' that he was pressured by [[Lorne Michaels]] to have sex with Heckerling so she would direct the 1998 film ''[[A Night at the Roxbury]]'' (although she ultimately only produced, rather than directed it).<ref name="abuse">{{Cite web |url=https://www.avclub.com/chris-kattans-got-a-disturbing-story-about-lorne-michae-1835065317 |title=Chris Kattan's Got a Disturbing Story About Lorne Michaels and ''A Night at the Roxbury'' |last=Neilan |first=Dan |date=May 29, 2019 |website=[[The A.V. Club]]}}</ref> Heckerling's daughter Mollie disputes his claims saying that, although Heckerling and Kattan had an affair, it occurred when the film was already shooting.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.vulture.com/2019/05/mollie-heckerling-chris-kattan-amy-heckerling.html|website=www.vulture.com|access-date=2019-06-05|title=Amy Heckerling's Daughter Responds to Chris Kattan's Claims of Sexual Coercion|date=May 29, 2019}}</ref>