Editing My Dinner with Andre

{{short description|1981 film by Louis Malle}}
{{Use American English|date = April 2019}}
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{{Infobox film
| name           = My Dinner with Andre
| image          = My Dinner with Andre 1981 film theatrical release poster.jpg
| alt            =
| caption        = Theatrical release poster
| director       = [[Louis Malle]]
| producer       = {{Plainlist |
* [[George W. George]]
* Beverly Karp
}}
| writer         = {{Plainlist |
* [[Wallace Shawn]]
* [[André Gregory]]
}}
| starring       = {{Plainlist |
* André Gregory
* Wallace Shawn
}}
| music          = [[Allen Shawn]]
| cinematography = {{ill|Jeri Sopanen|fi|Jeri Sopanen}}
| editing        = [[Suzanne Baron]]
| distributor    = [[New Yorker Films]]
| released       = {{Film date|1981|10|11}}
| runtime        = 111 minutes<!--Theatrical runtime: 111:14--><ref>{{cite web | url=http://www.bbfc.co.uk/releases/my-dinner-andre-film | archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20161125044428/http://www.bbfc.co.uk/releases/my-dinner-andre-film | url-status=dead | archive-date=November 25, 2016 | title=''My Dinner with Andre'' (A) | work=[[British Board of Film Classification]] | date=April 6, 1982 | access-date=November 24, 2016}}</ref>
| country        = United States
| language       = English
| budget         = $475,000
| gross          = $5,250,000<ref name="BoxOffice">{{cite web|url=https://www.worldwideboxoffice.com/movie.cgi?title=My%20Dinner%20with%20Andre&year=1981|title=My Dinner With Andre|author=Worldwide Boxoffice|access-date=June 11, 2022}}</ref>
}}
'''''My Dinner with Andre''''' is a 1981 American [[drama]] film directed by [[Louis Malle]], and written by and starring [[André Gregory]] and [[Wallace Shawn]] as fictionalized versions of themselves sharing a conversation at [[Café des Artistes]] in [[Manhattan]]. The film's dialogue covers topics such as [[experimental theater]], the nature of theater, and the nature of life, and contrasts Andre's [[spiritual experience]]s with Wally's modest [[humanism]].

Reception was largely positive upon initial release, and over time ''My Dinner with Andre'' has been regarded as a classic.

==Plot==
Struggling playwright Wally dreads having dinner with his old friend Andre, whom he has been avoiding since Andre gave up his career as a theater director in 1975 amidst a [[midlife crisis]] and embarked on an extended hiatus during which he traveled the world. Wally reflects that as he has aged he has had to focus more on making money than art.

At [[Café des Artistes]] in Manhattan, Andre tells Wally about some of the adventures he has had since they last saw each other, which included working with his mentor [[Jerzy Grotowski]] and a group of Polish actors in a forest in Poland; traveling to the [[Sahara]] while trying to create a play based on ''[[The Little Prince]]'' by [[Antoine de Saint-Exupéry]]; and visiting the ecological commune [[Findhorn Ecovillage|Findhorn]] in Scotland. The last in this string of events was when Andre and a small group of friends arranged [[Halloween]]-themed experiences for each other at an estate in [[Montauk, New York|Montauk]], including the participants being briefly [[Premature burial#Voluntary|buried alive]].

While Andre says he needed to do all of these things to get out of the rut he was in and learn how to be human, Wally argues that living as Andre has done for the past several years is simply not possible for most people. He describes how he finds pleasure in more ordinary things, like a cup of coffee or his new electric blanket. Andre asserts that focusing too much on comfort can be dangerous, and says that what passes for normal life in New York City is more akin to living in a dream than reality. While Wally agrees with many of Andre's criticisms of modern society, he takes issue with the more mystical aspects of Andre's stories.

After all of the other customers have already left the restaurant, the friends, each having expressed themselves openly and feeling heard by the other, part on good terms. Since Andre paid for dinner, Wally treats himself to a taxi ride, and he notices feeling a deep connection to all of the familiar places he passes on the way home. He narrates that, when he sees his girlfriend, he tells her all about his dinner with Andre.

==Cast==
* [[André Gregory]] as Andre
* [[Wallace Shawn]] as Wallace "Wally" Shawn
* Jean Lenauer as Waiter
* Roy Butler<!--- not the politician ---> as Bartender
* Cindy Lou Adkins as Coat-Check Girl (uncredited)

==Production==
After spending several years away from the theater, André Gregory was looking to get back into it, so he asked his friend Wallace Shawn if he wanted to do something together. Shawn knew Gregory wanted to tell his story, even working with a biographer at one point, and suggested they develop a story consisting of a conversation between the two of them, with interest coming from their contrasting personalities and Gregory's anecdotes. Having recently acted in his first few films, Shawn saw the project as a film, rather than a play.<ref name="Criterion" /><ref name="AVClub" />

Although the film was based on events in the actors' lives, Gregory and Shawn denied they were simply playing themselves, and said in an interview with film critic [[Roger Ebert]] that, if they were to remake the film, they would swap characters to prove their point. In an interview with [[Noah Baumbach]] in 2009, Shawn said:

{{blockquote|I actually had a purpose as I was writing this: I wanted to destroy that guy that I played, to the extent that there was any of ''me'' there. I wanted to kill that side of myself by making the film, because that guy is totally motivated by fear.<ref name="wally" />}}

While Shawn and Gregory were trying to find someone to direct the film, Gregory received a phone call, which he initially thought was a prank, from French director [[Louis Malle]], who said he had read a copy of the screenplay he received from a mutual friend and he wanted to direct or produce the film.<ref name=Criterion /> The writers brought Malle on board, and he worked with them to cut an hour from the three-hour script. Shawn later said that while he had carefully constructed the screenplay and would have preferred to make the longer film, Malle had won most of the arguments, and he credited Malle with infusing the film with a warmth that helped it connect with audiences.<ref name=Criterion />

A rehearsal held at a restaurant caused Malle to question whether the setting of the film should be changed, as the eating seemed likely to create problems. Shawn and Gregory tried to think of what else their characters could be doing, but they wound up just having Gregory not eat very much, as he is the one who does most of the talking in the film.<ref name=Criterion />

''My Dinner with Andre'' was filmed over two weeks in December 1980 in [[Richmond, Virginia]], in the then-vacant [[Jefferson Hotel (Richmond, Virginia)|Jefferson Hotel]],<ref>{{cite web|url=https://m.styleweekly.com/richmond/talking-heads/Content?oid=17031997|title=Talking Heads|work=[[Style Weekly]]|date=26 January 2021}}</ref> which has since been restored and reopened as a luxury venue. The set was designed to look like the [[Café des Artistes]] in New York City.<ref name="Taubin 2009" /> [[Lloyd Kaufman]] was the film's production manager, and his [[Troma Entertainment]] provided production support.<ref name="damn" /><ref name="fifty" /><ref name="spin" />

==Real-life similarities==
Throughout the film, Andre refers to his wife "Chiquita". In real life, André Gregory was married to Mercedes "Chiquita" Nebelthau until her death in 1992.<ref name=Chiquita>{{cite web|url=https://www.nytimes.com/1992/02/12/arts/mercedes-gregory-film-maker-dead-documentarian-56.html |title=Mercedes Gregory, Film Maker, Dead; Documentarian, 56 |work=[[The New York Times]] |date=February 12, 1992 |access-date=2014-04-10}}</ref> Nebelthau was a documentary filmmaker whose credits include three films about Gregory's mentor [[Jerzy Grotowski]], whom Andre and Wally discuss in the film.<ref name=Chiquita />

In the film, Wally refers several times to his "girlfriend Debbie". Wallace Shawn's longtime partner in real life is the short story writer [[Deborah Eisenberg]], who had not yet published anything at the time of the film. Eisenberg makes an appearance early in the film as a dark-haired diner Wally sees as he scans the restaurant while standing at the bar waiting for Andre.<ref name="Taubin 2009">{{cite web |url=https://www.criterion.com/current/posts/1178-my-dinner-with-andre-long-strange-trips |title=My Dinner with André: Long, Strange Trips |first=Amy |last=Taubin |work=[[The Criterion Collection]] |date=2009 |access-date=2018-01-27}}</ref>

At one point in the film, Andre refers to "ROC", a Scottish mathematician who claimed he met [[faun]]s and the god [[Pan (god)|Pan]]. "ROC" refers to [[Robert Ogilvie Crombie]], one of the founders of the [[Findhorn Foundation]].<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://albion.org.uk/historical-albion/r-olgivie-crombie-1899-1975/|title=R. Olgivie Crombie (1899 - 1975)}}</ref>

==Release==
The film had its world premiere at the 1981 [[Telluride Film Festival]].<ref>{{Cite web |last=Ebert |first=Roger |title=My Dinner with Andre movie review (1981) {{!}} Roger Ebert |url=https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/great-movie-my-dinner-with-andre-1981 |access-date=2022-09-05 |website=rogerebert.com |language=en}}</ref>

==Reception==
On [[review aggregator]] website [[Rotten Tomatoes]], the film has an approval rating of 93% based on 27 reviews, with an average score of 7.8 out of 10.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/my_dinner_with_andre|title=My Dinner With Andre (1981)|via=www.rottentomatoes.com}}</ref> On [[Metacritic]] it has a score of 83 out of 100 based on 15 reviews, indicating "universal acclaim".<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.metacritic.com/movie/my-dinner-with-andre|title=My Dinner With Andre|via=www.metacritic.com}}</ref>

[[Roger Ebert]] and [[Gene Siskel]] gave high praise to the film on ''[[Sneak Previews]]'', support that the producers told Ebert helped keep the film in theaters for a year.<ref name="barnes20130404">{{cite news | url=http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/roger-ebert-dies-film-critic-406274 | title=Critic Roger Ebert Dies at 70 | work=The Hollywood Reporter | date=2013-04-04 | access-date=April 4, 2013 | author=Barnes, Mike}}</ref> Ebert chose it as the best film of 1981, and he and Siskel later ranked it as the fifth-best and fourth-best film, respectively, of the 1980s.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBmduowlu8U |archive-url=https://ghostarchive.org/varchive/youtube/20211212/UBmduowlu8U| archive-date=2021-12-12 |url-status=live|title=Siskel and Ebert Best Movies of the 1980's (part 3 of 3)|date=March 4, 2010 |via=www.youtube.com}}{{cbignore}}</ref> In 1999, Ebert added the film to his ''Great Movies'' essay series, starting the retrospective review by stating: "Someone asked me the other day if I could name a movie that was entirely devoid of clichés. I thought for a moment, and then answered, ''My Dinner with Andre''."<ref name="Ebert">[http://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/great-movie-my-dinner-with-andre-1981 "My Dinner with Andre."] ''Chicago Sun-Times''.</ref>

At the [[Boston Society of Film Critics Awards 1981|2nd Boston Society of Film Critics Awards]], the film won the award for Best American Film of 1981, and Shawn and Gregory won [[Boston Society of Film Critics Award for Best Screenplay|Best Screenplay]].

==In popular culture==
* The July 21, 1982, comic of ''[[The Far Side]]'' by [[Gary Larson]] is a gag based on the title of this film.<ref>{{Cite news|url=https://www.newspapers.com/clip/23544520/my-dinner-with-andy|newspaper=Arizona Republic|title=My dinner with Andy |date=July 21, 1982 |page=130 }}</ref>
* The film ''[[My Breakfast with Blassie]]'' (1983) is a parody of ''My Dinner with Andre'' in which comedian [[Andy Kaufman]] has a discussion over breakfast at a diner with professional wrestling manager [[Freddie Blassie]].
* An ''[[Animaniacs]]'' segment called "My Dinner with Wakko", from "The Ten Short Films of [[Wakko Warner]]", where Wakko drinks his Soda while Dr Scratchansniff tells him about his trip to the Mayan Ruins.{{Citation needed|date=November 2024}}
* The title of the American CGI-animated short film ''[[The Adventures of André & Wally B.]]'' (1984) is a tribute to this film.{{Citation needed|date=November 2024}}
* In the fifth-season episode of ''[[The Simpsons]]'' entitled "[[Boy-Scoutz 'n the Hood]]" (1993), [[Martin Prince]] plays an [[arcade game]] based on the film.<ref name="gamespy"/>
* The [[Frasier season 1|first season]] of the sitcom ''[[Frasier]]'' concludes with an episode titled "My Coffee with [[Niles Crane|Niles]]" (1994), which is loosely based on this film's premise and structure.<ref>{{Cite web|last=Kurland|first=Daniel|date=2015-08-04|title='Frasier' Explored What It Means to Be Happy in its Real-Time Bottle Episode, "My Coffee with Niles"|url=https://www.vulture.com/2015/08/frasier-explored-what-it-means-to-be-happy-in-its-real-time-bottle-episode-my-coffee-with-niles.html|access-date=2021-10-26|website=Vulture|language=en-us}}</ref> This film is also directly mentioned in "The Zoo Story" (1998), an episode in the fifth season of the series, when [[Martin Crane|Martin]] says, mockingly, after he and Niles get their VHS tapes mixed up: "Yeah, well, that's the way Duke and I felt about ''My Dinner with Andre''. Talk about suspense! Will they order dessert? Will they leave a good tip?"<ref>{{Cite web|title=The Zoo Story — Frasier Transcripts Season 5 Episode 12 — The Frasier Archives|url=http://www.kacl780.net/frasier/transcripts/season_5/episode_12/the_zoo_story.html|access-date=2021-10-26|website=www.kacl780.net}}</ref>
* During the end credits of the film ''[[Waiting for Guffman]]'' (1996), Corky St. Clair is shown displaying his action figures of the characters from this film.{{Citation needed|date=November 2024}}
* The second-season episode of the television series ''[[Community (TV series)|Community]]'' "[[Critical Film Studies]]" (2011) pays homage to this film with [[Abed Nadir]] and [[Jeff Winger]] in the focal roles.<ref name="av">{{cite web |title=Critical Film Studies |url=https://www.avclub.com/community-critical-film-studies-1798167720 |work=[[The A.V. Club]] |date=March 24, 2011 |last=VanDerWerff |first=Emily |access-date=June 23, 2011}}</ref>
* In the ''[[Family Guy]]'' episode "Brian the Closer" (2014), the family watch "My Dinner with [[André the Giant|Andre the Giant]]" on TV.
* The opening scene of the first-season episode of ''[[Nirvanna the Band the Show]]'' entitled "[[Nirvanna the Band the Show#ep7|The Buffet]]" (2017) shows the main character mimicking Wally's actions from the beginning of this film: walking in the city, waiting for a subway, and putting on a tie before entering a restaurant.<ref>{{Cite news|url=http://brieftake.com/nirvanna-the-band-the-show-the-interview/|title=Nirvanna the Band the Show: the Interview|date=2017-03-16|work=Brief Take|access-date=2017-05-04|language=en-CA}}</ref>
* [[Independent film]] director Maverick Moore parodied both ''My Dinner with Andre'' and "the totally bonkers friendship between legendary filmmaker [[Werner Herzog]] and controversial actor [[Klaus Kinski]]" in his short film ''My Dinner with Werner'' (2019).<ref>[https://www.firstshowing.net/2022/watch-blind-date-dinner-comedy-short-film-my-dinner-with-werner/ Watch: Blind Date Dinner: Comedy Short Film; 'My Dinner with Werner'] by Alex Billington, February 3, 2022.</ref>
* The title of the ''[[Rick and Morty]]'' episode "[[Mort Dinner Rick Andre]]" (2021), references the film.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.adultswim.com/videos/rick-and-morty/mort-dinner-rick-andre|title=Watch Rick and Morty on Adult Swim|website=Adult Swim}}</ref><ref>{{Citation |last1=Archer |first1=Wesley |title=Mort Dinner Rick Andre |date=2021-06-20 |url=https://www.imdb.com/title/tt12396812/ |series=Rick and Morty |access-date=2022-06-11 |last2=Tesoro |first2=Johnny |last3=Hair |first3=Jacob}}</ref>
* In his April 21, 2025, guest essay in [[The New York Times]] titled "My Dinner With Adolf," [[Larry David]] parodied the structure of My Dinner with Andre to satirize [[Bill Maher]]'s recent dinner with Donald Trump. David imagines a surreal dinner with [[Adolf Hitler]], highlighting the dangers of normalizing authoritarian figures through personal charm and seemingly benign interactions.<ref>https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/21/opinion/larry-david-hitler-dinner.html</ref>

==See also==
* [[List of films featuring fictional films]]
* [[Robert Ogilvie Crombie]] – a Scottish spiritualist and writer referenced in the film

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==External links==
{{Wikiquote}}
* {{AFI film|67304|My Dinner with Andre}}
* {{IMDb title|0082783}}
* {{Rotten-tomatoes|my_dinner_with_andre}}
* {{TCMDb title|id=84306}}
* {{cite news|author-link=Roger Ebert|first=Roger|last=Ebert|url=https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/my-dinner-with-andre-1981|title=My Dinner with Andre|date=January 1, 1981 | work=Chicago Sun-Times}}
* {{cite news|author-link=Roger Ebert|first=Roger|last=Ebert|url=https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/great-movie-my-dinner-with-andre-1981|title=My Dinner with Andre|date=June 13, 1999 | work=Chicago Sun-Times}}
* [https://www.criterion.com/current/posts/1178-my-dinner-with-andr-long-strange-trips ''My Dinner with André: Long, Strange Trips''] an essay by [[Amy Taubin]] at the [[Criterion Collection]]

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